WHY DO YOU GET TIRED OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP...?

Relationship as we know it is the association of two or more people. most especially two people that have special feelings for each other. This is the most commonest of all relationship and many people who are involved in such relationships will agree with me that after a period of time, the relationship becomes monotonous and boring.

Now, many dont understand the actual reason or reasons why relationships becomes cold after a while. So, lets try and examine why most relationships end up cold and some remedies...

1. What Goes Up Come Down

This is a natural law of gravity. Anything that goes up will definitely come down, likewise every relationship that started at the top must plummet. Most relationship usually starts with rooftop passion for both partners, with those involved so engulfed with the feeling of love. Fresh relationship always have great fire with the feeling of " i cant live without you". Partners do everything together and for each other but as time goes by the fire starts to burn lower and lower and if some fresh oil is not injected into it, with time it will die a natural death.

2. Overfamiliarity

Every normal relationship requires some boundaries in order to last for long. Partner should set boundaries that will guide them from getting too over-farmiliar with each other. The moment partners starts checking each others phones, read each others mails, stay together so long and all day, engages in frivolous jokes and play dirty tricks with each other, then they will be treating each other with less respect and give each other disdain look. They will begin to argue over petty things and unimportant issues. Then the relationship will become choky

3. Time For Recess

Every relationship no matter how strong needs a break. For a relationship to stay strong and last longer, there should be time for recess. Two people in a relationship needs to give each other some space in order to create fresh urge for each other. When people stay together too long without a break that will renew their feelings for one another then break up is emminent. It's like refreshing a page of a computer, it reload the page and relunch the apps. Similarly, a little recess will rekindle your fire of love.

4. The Relationship is lacking spices

They used to say " variety is the spice of life". When a relationship is full of same routine day in, day out, then it becomes so boring that the partners can predit the next thing that will happen. People dont like to be predicted. They get the feeling that life has more to offer than being tie down in a relationship with no suspense at all. Partners have to keep inventing adventures in order to stay refreshd in their relationship

5. One Of The Partners Is Already Fed Up

There are different motives for entering into a relationship, the moment partners get whatever they are looking for in a relationship then the next thing is to hit the exit botton. No one stays where they are not fulfilling any purpose again. The instant a partner want out, then its better to quietly make a pact and let him or her go in order to avoid conflict because what follows is resentment and hatred

Conclusion

Relationship is full of ups and downs but those in a relationship are the one to make up their mind to stay together through thick and thin. Everything in life will experience the law of diminishing return where thing will reach its peak and nose dive in order to pick up again.

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