How To Handle The Mistress Of Your Husband...

Does Your Husband have A Mistress ?

How do you handle the mistress of your husband or your rival in a relationship..? This might sound odd but its true and very important too. until we come to term with that fact that's when we can have a solution to it. Every wives must know that their hubbies has a mistress - either he's showing it or not.

your hubby may tell you - i have eyes for only you, but ask him to show you his heart, whether his heart is only for you too..?

Let's start from the scratch.

Mistress Are The Reason Your Hubby Is Changing

Well, why would your hubby have a mistress..? Most women deny this for as long as possible, they don't want to accept the fact that their husband could have someone else apart from them. it is very disappointing and heartrending but its time they face reality. maybe if they accept the fact early and work on it, then it wont deteriorate into something that would break their homes. Most men get a mistress for difference reasons and these reasons are very serious that women needs to handle them carefully first before handling their hubby's mistress.

Lets be reminded that your husband's mistress is a woman too, she has all that you have, some even have more attributes than you or what do you think enticed your husband to them. Check your husband mistress out, you will realize they have something that you don't have - it could be beauty, sex appeal, character, affluence and some are even better than you in bed.

One thing is sure, the mistress of your husband has something that is missing in you. There are times you wondered what on earth do they have that you don't, after all you're a woman too, but believe me, there is a triumph card somewhere, hold by someone which is giving her an edge over you. Legend has it that some tribe in Nigeria are very good in bed, those ladies from that part are those that can make a man cheat. So when your husband have a mistress, know for sure you have a part to play in it.

Now how do you handle the mistress of your husband...?

the moment your hubby hide to take his calls...something is fishy

Don't even try to go to her or attack her. Just find out who she is and to do this isn't that hard, men are not really good at keeping secret. You will see your husband mistress's number on his phone, either by mistake or by omission. The moment your husband began to behave strangely towards you, either by complaining a lot about everything or is overly quiet around you; know something is fishy. you don't need to struggle to know his mistress - once he starts hiding to make or take calls or the moment he begin to delete the last caller on his phone - you should be interested in him more.

If you pay more attention, you'll get it and that doesn't gives you any right to attack his mistress, she didn't steal any thing from you, neither has she committed any crime. She owe you no apology too, and she doesn't have to be loyal to you because to her, you're simply a rival. It doesn't matter if you marry legally or not, she is not the one to blame but your hubby. Her loyalty is also to your hubby and not you and she will protect him more than you will ever do, because all her hopes and future aspirations rested on him. Therefore, don't think it will be easy to shake her off like a stain on your clothe.

think of those tricks you used to captured him at the start

In order to get your hubby back, think of that same thing you did to get his attention in the first place before you're married - those skills you displayed in order to get his attention - how you flaunt your backside, those boob you pushed extra out, those extra attention you gave to your face, your shape, and your skin. You need to re-seduce your husband. The problem is not the mistress but you. Am not saying its good for a man to have a mistress but you need to know one thing, men don't get old with years of marriage but women do. The number of years a women spend in marriage, that's how old they are, times ten. That's where the difference is, men will get to a certain age when there wives would have become and look as old as their mother, at this junction, husbands are already looking for an alternative. So, you have to deal with yourself first instead of dealing with the mistress of your hubby.

Check yourself out, whats missing, why would my husband leave me for someone else. So, you need to check out your competitors too and get their USP (Unique Selling Point). Many people always check out their competitors to fight them but that's a totally wrong approach, if you want to make a fool out of your husband, try and do as if its fine to try someone else, no man wanted to have another burden on his neck just that they derive pleasure in the hide and seek game they are playing that mistress they have and the moment you know but turn your back as if you don't care, the fun is over. Work on your USP and flaunt it for your hubby to see. Men follow their eyes and as a woman, you must see from your husband's eyes. what are the thing that freak your husband? Capitalize on them.

Don't be blind by jealousy or rage when checking out your husband's mistress, see beyond the jealousy. Men need physical attraction to draw them to you and believe me, that's the only thing that can get them back to you, if you know your husband's weak points - explore it and use it to your advantage. Don't fight your husband for having a mistress or fight the mistress straight away - by doing that, you will lose your husband or lose your marriage.

seduce your husband in order to get him back

Don't let down your guard because you're a wife, don't start dressing anyhow because you are already a mother. To your husband, you are a woman and that's how it will be forever. Always show your husband stuffs you're made of, do new hairdo, display new seductive skills, get a very tempting night gown and use the type of perfume he knew you with while you were courting. Men are like children, they needed pampering most of the time -this is one area you can capture his heart. Don't always collect from him but surprise him once a while by taking him out. But most importantly, make sure you are always looking good and sexy whenever you're around him, you have a duty to fight and save that marriage.